9/29/13

Saying Good by

Wow, the last few months have been crazy.  I went back to work and have not had a weekend off yet.  Between helping out here on the farm and working from 7:00 am to 6:pm fixing my department,  I have not had much time to myself.   Tonight is the first night in months that I have taken the time to actually sit down at my computer here at home.  There are just places that I can not go on my work Ipad or computer.  

How am I holding up, well I have not had much time to worry about romance or Dominants that is for sure.  I had started talking to someone, and then just kind of quit.  He lives in Dallas, and I live way down here.  I just had too much on my plate with starting a new job in a department that is getting chewed up and regurgitated by the government.  Hopefully, things will slow down enough that I can reconnect with him and see where it goes.

Last month was hard.  My niece and nephew came to visit for just over 2 weeks.  The day that they were supposed to leave, we got a call from one of my uncles and was informed that one of the other ones had a heart attack on the golf coarse and was dead.  We had the memorial service on August 14, 2013.  He had wanted to be cremated, so there was no funeral.  We had the service today, which fell on the same weekend as Beyond Vanilla XXIII, so my hopes for a fun filled weekend in Dallas were a no go, but I do not regret going to the Celebration of life/Funeral.  I have come to understated that family is more important than social events as of late..  It was nice seeing all the family and loved ones that got to share in his life stories.  Uncle Phill was the middle child of 5, only 55 years old.  He actually died on the anniversary of my Great- Great-Grandmother's death, Aug 11, 1963.  

 This was one of his favorite pictures.  It was taken at Circle 8 Rodeo Grounds.  He loved being a rodeo clown, and in this one, he was trying to help out an injured rider, and ended up getting the blunt of the action.  That is him on the right getting bulldozed by the business end of the bull. 


He was an amazing man that left behind stories that would make you shake your head one minute and laugh so hard the next that you would pass out.

WE LOVE YOU UNCLE PHILL!!!!!

I miss him dearly but know that he is having a blast hanging out with my Grandparents in heaven.